The consequence of having threesome with someone we know

For swinger couples who love to have couples dating, the biggest issue of them must be the third. Who to invite into this three way party? A friend who is also a swinger or a stranger from some tinder for threesome dating apps? This is often concerned the most by many swinger couples who are living a swinger lifestyle. For me now, the answer is simple and clear. Strangers from tinder for threesome dating apps, or a bar or some clubs. Threesome is just one-time thing, unless you can find someone whom you and your significant other are both attracted to, someone who likes you both in return, and also whom you click with in bed, which I think the chance is pretty low. Therefore, I would rather have threesome with someone I never knew before and never will know in the future, because I don’t want to see her or his face again after the threesome no matter how good or how bad the threesome goes. I won’t feel stressful before, during or after it. It is probably for the best.

Why am I so stubborn in it? There is reason for that. I had experiences and learned my lesson from it.

Two years ago, just when my wife and I firstly established an open relationship, we had a lot of threesome hookups together. We started our open relationship by having threesomes. At first, we chose to have threesomes with strangers. We found some of them on bars and clubs, and most of them on tinder threesome dating apps. Therefore, we didn’t know who they are before and we wouldn’t know it neither after. That caused no problem for us, even till now. However, you know, human-beings are creatures which can get tired of rigidities easily. When having threesome with strangers became routines, meeting online or offline, taking into our house or his/her house and then having threesomes, we were both eager to make a change.

It was my wife who firstly brought up the proposal of inviting a friend or someone we know to have a threesome dating or maybe develop a constant three way relationship. After thought about it for a few seconds, I agreed to it. I didn’t think it through. I thought how bad can it be. It’s just threesomes. So my wife invited the shop owner in our neighborhood. That was the place we usually go to when we need some groceries, so we are pretty familiar with the own there.

He came to our house and we had a threesome. The threesome was great. Actually, wonderful. The problem is, he was too great and I was like plain. When there is comparison, someone who is plain is just bad. We had such circumstances before, but it was with strangers. Once the threesome was done, everything can be put behind. However, the case is not the same this time. We have to meet his almost every day. Every time I saw him, his face would remind me of my bad time. So now, I would never go to that shop again. Just ashamed of it! You might as well have threesome witht someone on swingers app.